Tag Archives: Trauma

True Story Surviving Abuse & Homelessness

I was recently invited to give a speech for a supportive program that helps homeless families with housing and resources. This is my true story of surviving domestic violence, what it is like to be homeless and enter the shelter … Continue reading

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Child’s Drawing: “Daddy in Jail, He Hit Me..” (Family Court Awards Custody to Abuser)

(Hennepin County, Minnesota: 2006-2018) Mother discovers child’s drawings in a lost notebook, a voice silenced by family court speaks out about abuse… “Daddy red touch – jail with lock. He hit me.” DJ then slaps himself in the head, hard, to … Continue reading

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Mother Hayley Gascoigne Collapses During Family Court Ruling, Dies “Because of Stress”

“The biggest challenge Hayley had to face in her life was her battle for her children. That battle took her from you.” ~ Statement from Hayley’s funeral Scunthorpe, Lincolnshire, England (Jan 26, 2017): A loving young mother abruptly began convulsing … Continue reading

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Family Court Judge Bryan Hedges Removed After Sexual Abuse Allegations

Syracuse, New York, 2012: County Family Court Judge Bryan Hedges abruptly resigned after being confronted with allegations that he sexually abused his niece in 1972. The victim was 5 years old at the time, deaf and mute, and unable to communicate. … Continue reading

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Family Devastated When Daughter’s Killer Sought Access to Child in Family Court

Jane Clough: Murderer wanted access to daughter “She bore your child and then you murdered her, leaving your infant child without a mother and with the prospect of growing up to learn one day that her father murdered her mother.” … Continue reading

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Family Court Ruling Continues to Traumatize Children

Is this truly in the “best interest” of the children? The judges in the corrupt Hennepin County family court, along with Guardian ad Litem Jamie Manning, have created a custody and parenting schedule that promotes parental alienation, and has continued … Continue reading

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“Secrets” by J’son – Raising awareness about sexual abuse, offering hope

“The enemies inside my home but who would ever listen to me, and all the secrets that you made me keep. And it’s tearing me apart..” “Secrets” is a new song by Christian rapper and R&B artist, Jason “J’son” Watson, featuring J.R.  “Secrets” … Continue reading

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The Daily Show “Parenting with the Enemy” – Confronts Courts Awarding Custody to Rapists

Samantha Bee loses her cool when she learns that rape victims are often forced to fight for custody rights against their attackers. 4/9/2015. Source: “The Daily Show – Fact-ish – Parenting with the Enemy” : http://thedailyshow.cc.com/videos/iaj0jk/parenting-with-the-enemy

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Child Reports: “Dad Tackled Me” (Abuse Allegations After Abuser Wins Custody)

Background: I reported numerous times to the Guardian ad Litem Jamie Manning, the custody evaluator and included in my affidavits the long history of physical and emotional abuse Martin Hegland perpetrated on my son. No one listened… here is just one … Continue reading

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Motherless Day: Mother’s Day Without My Children

This is what it is like to be alienated from your children on Mother’s Day due to an abusive ex, and an unjust family court order…  The last time I saw my children, they said to me, “Dad is thinkin’ about … Continue reading

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